Wedding rings are the main attributes of family life, symbols of the unity of two loving hearts. There are many beliefs about these talismans, which can both save and make happy and destroy a marriage.
What should wedding rings be like?
They should be made in the same style, preferably from precious metal. Gold symbolizes wealth and prosperity, platinum symbolizes the strength and inviolability of marriage bonds.
Jewelry inlaid with stone is acceptable. Information about what kind of energy it carries and whether it suits the couple’s horoscope will help you make your choice.
Wedding accessories should be put on and taken off freely, but not tight or slipping off your finger.. If the rings are small, the newlyweds will not be able to put them on, and if they are large, they will drop or lose them. To avoid this, the purchase is made in advance, always with fitting.
Signs about the appearance of rings
They should be smooth. The corrugated surface promises serious obstacles in the path of the spouses, which they will have to overcome. More bumps - more difficulties. A marriage, especially if the spouses are young and inexperienced, can fail.
A girl's ring can be thinner and more elegant than the chosen one's. This will create images of a strong head and protector of the family and his gentle and fragile keeper of the hearth.
Signs about wearing wedding rings
Orthodox Christians who got married in church wear it on their right hand, on the fourth finger. The ancient Greeks believed that the vessels from there lead directly to the heart, and the energy of love circulates through them along with the blood. It is not recommended to wear a ring made of silver on the ring finger - this metal cools the mutual feelings of the spouses. Wedding jewelry can be worn on the middle finger – this will help a woman find inner harmony and restore energy balance.
Married Catholics and Muslims, unlike Orthodox Christians, wear a ring on their left hand, while divorced ones wear a ring on their right hand.
It is considered a good sign to find gold jewelry before the wedding.. But it is forbidden to wear it - it is unknown what kind of energy its previous owner possessed. In Western Europe, there was a belief that the discovery of a ring by a young unmarried girl was the work of evil spirits, and the one who put it on her finger automatically became the bride of the devil.
Signs about buying, receiving and transferring rings
Buy new rings at a jewelry store or wedding salon, for the bride and groom at the same time. It is unacceptable to buy used rings from a pawn shop or consignment store.Beware even of melted jewelry of strangers, widows, divorced people and the dead - there is a risk of repeating the fate of their owners. The exception is rings from parents and close relatives who have been happily married for at least 25 years.
Newlyweds can choose rings together, taking into account common opinion and individual preferences. The groom pays for the purchase, demonstrating his readiness to become a support and breadwinner for the future family. To make the right choice, go to the store charged with a positive mood.
It is better to pack wedding rings in one box and store them together until the wedding day. It is not advisable to demonstrate it to strangers. You can freeze them in water for a while to strengthen the future union.
During the celebration, all other decorations are removed from the fingers. Dropping a wedding ring means separation. If it falls, thread a strong white thread through it so that it takes away all the negativity.
Gloves from the hands of the bride must be removed before the spouses exchange symbols of love and fidelity. It is categorically not recommended to wear gloves over it - the union will be short-lived and fragile.
As soon as the wedding attributes are on the newlyweds, the box is taken from them by a single friend, an unmarried friend or a relative who plans to start his own family in the near future.
About rings after the wedding...
The wedding ring has a closed shape. It accumulates the energy of its owner, protecting the family hearth from quarrels, illnesses and the evil eye. After the wedding ceremony it must be worn constantly.
There are cases When does jewelry need to be removed?. According to great-grandmothers, a woman in labor should not wear rings or chains to facilitate the birth of a child.If a child in the house is very sick, the mother can put her ring under his pillow at night to “share” her energy and promote a speedy recovery. It is up to the loving spouse to return the ring to the finger.
Do not under any circumstances allow anyone to take it off your hand, try it on or borrow it. You can shorten your life, “give” your destiny, health, material wealth and marital happiness into the wrong hands.
No matter how difficult your financial situation may be, you cannot pawn, melt down or sell wedding accessories. Peace, tranquility and love will leave the family.
There are magical ways to restore and strengthen relationships between spouses, including whispers, love spells, and conspiracies. However, their use goes against Christian rules. Just keep it carefully throughout your life together..
The absence of one of the family’s main amulets significantly undermines its well-being. Losing an engagement ring is an unkind sign, promising betrayal, divorce or a major loss. If this happens, it is better to purchase a new pair of rings and donate the remainder from the previous pair to charity.
If the ring is cracked:
- on the finger - it means it has absorbed negativity directed at its owner;
- taken from the finger, it averted trouble from the home;
- according to other beliefs - to the infidelity of the spouse.
After a divorce, it is better to get rid of your old wedding ring.. It will carry negativity and the energy of destruction, preventing its owner from finding peace and happiness and establishing a new personal life.
Widows are allowed to wear a ring on their left hand in memory of their ex-husband, or better yet, on a chain around their neck. You should not pass it on to your children, just like the jewelry of your deceased spouse, so that they do not repeat the fate of their parents.
Taking into account all the signs associated with wedding rings, we should not forget that a lot depends on the newlyweds themselves. For a marriage to be long and strong, it requires mutual respect, attention, patience and, of course, love.
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