What a self-respecting woman will not wear

Respect for a woman by other people is the result of her respect for herself. When making certain decisions, she either says: “Yes, I am a valuable person for myself,” or considers others (husband, children, colleagues, and in especially advanced cases, even just acquaintances) more important than herself.

Sometimes self-disrespect begins with little things; it can be disguised as love, some kind of sacrifice for the benefit of others. Putting the interests of other people above your real needs - this is especially common among women. However, what starts small tends to gradually develop to the scale of a catastrophe - when, literally on the ruins of life, everyone for whom the sacrifices were made will say in unison: “We didn’t ask for this!”

How is self-respect or disrespect shown?

Disrespecting yourself in the way a woman looks is always a compromise inside. A woman perfectly feels the result of this - her insecurity, even if she does not fully admit it to herself. This affects posture, movements and gait, eyes and voice.Uncertainty and internal tension quietly poison life, because those around you unconsciously read this information and now treat a woman exactly the same way as she treats herself.

Yes, external untidiness and disharmony unconsciously repel, but the mechanism also works in the other direction - when a woman knows what gives her confidence and value in her own eyes and skillfully uses it, then the attitude of those around her changes.

You may hear that clothes are just clothes. Like, it’s meant to warm and protect, so why get hung up on it? Then, by the same logic, you can put a basin on your head during rain - it performs the same functions as an umbrella. However, we don't do that. Nobody does. There is nothing wrong with conveying your value to the world through clothing.

The times when it was safer not to stand out are long gone, and the saying “you meet someone by their clothes...” will always be relevant.

What is unacceptable in the clothes of a self-respecting woman?

Wrinkled clothes

Wrinkled clothes spoil the appearance and nullify all efforts (if any) - the woman looks sloppy. Regardless of how carefully the wardrobe was thought out before purchasing, regardless of the price and quality of the fabrics. The slight carelessness that can be seen in the photos of some celebrities can be misleading - but you need to understand that this pseudo-sloppiness was thought out by a team of competent stylists and is part of the image.

Tights with hooks

Arrows, puffs, hooks on tights and stockings are also unacceptable in the wardrobe of a self-respecting woman. Clues are potential holes or arrows, they are like a time bomb - you don’t know when it will happen, but you know for sure that it will happen at the most inopportune moment.

Tights or stockings with hooks make a woman look “cheap,” no matter how expensive her shoes, dress, or accessories are.

Bag with scuffs and scratches

A bag is an important accessory that can say a lot about its owner. A worn, battered bag with shabby handles, scratches or abrasions is unacceptable in the image of a woman who knows her worth. No matter how convenient this bag is, you will have to part with it.

Items are not the right size

When talking about things that are out of size, first of all we think of things that are too small for their owners. However, things that are larger than necessary can ruin the impression just as much. This happens, for example, if a woman, in the process of losing weight, postpones changing her wardrobe until she reaches the desired numbers. Meanwhile, old clothes are hanging on her like a scarecrow and this is noticeable to everyone around her. Therefore, when choosing a size, you need a certain courage and cold reason - so as not to flatter yourself, but at the same time to appreciate it.

Provocative clothes

Excessive transparency, too-tight clothes, deep cutouts “on the verge” will say more about a woman than we would like. In the Consciousness of many men, the “availability” light comes on. Such clothing attracts attention even in situations where it is inappropriate, so it is best to avoid it.

Shoes with worn heels and socks

In addition to the fact that it looks untidy, it can also affect posture, gait, and cause discomfort from movements. If you can get your shoes in order at a specialist, it is important to do this in a timely manner. If not, you need to throw it away, even if you and this pair of shoes have the warmest memories.

Stretch knits

When wearing stretched knitwear, a woman looks shapeless in most cases.Thin knitwear is a fabric that needs to be used very carefully in your wardrobe, otherwise there is a risk of looking sloppy and untidy. Instead of knitted blouses, you should give preference to blouses made of silk, chiffon or viscose, and dresses should be made of high-quality fabrics that can keep their shape, hide flaws and emphasize advantages.

Outerwear with matted fur

Sometimes the fur on outerwear can become matted due to precipitation or improper storage in the warm season. In most cases, it can be revived with a special brush, and then the clothes will be like new again. If the fur cannot be fluffed up or replaced with a new one, you need to say goodbye to such clothes without regret.

Clothes that don't suit your age

A woman dressed inappropriately for her age looks pathetic. Inappropriate things, excessively revealing dress length, makeup and even hairstyle reveal internal conflict and lack of harmony. People around, looking at such a woman, most often experience bewilderment or even pity.

The older a woman is, the less appropriate a sexual component is in her wardrobe, designed to attract the attention of others.

Worn jewelry, uncleaned jewelry

The ability to choose jewelry and accessories is not necessarily talent, it is the desire to understand it plus practice. More than anywhere else, the concept of “measure” is important here, and the saying “less is more” is precisely about this. Worn-out jewelry made of cheap plastic, steel that has changed its color, gold jewelry covered with plaque from daily wear and lost its shine, so in need of cleaning - no, and no again. The absence of decorations is usually unnoticed, but their poor quality is noticeable.

As you can see, there is nothing overly complicated in these details, which you just need to pay attention to. Love yourself, respect yourself, and those around you will feel the same way!