The length is shorter, the neckline is deeper, the style is more open, and the color, of course, is brighter! Under this slogan, many representatives of the fair sex, who want to get male attention, choose an outfit. Unfortunately, such tactics of attracting and seducing a gentleman do not always work. Or rather, it works, but not for long. A man perceives such an image as a one-time urge, frivolity, an object “for one night.”
Therefore, it is possible to attract the attention of the man you like with such an outfit, but in order to change the status of a single date to long-term meetings, to establish a close acquaintance with a serious contender for your hand and heart, bright and revealing clothes are not suitable.
Clothes that attract men's attention
When going to an event or outing, it is reasonable to prepare, create your image in advance, relying not only on your taste and experience, but also try to listen to the opinions of psychologists, designers and the men themselves.
There are several simple recommendations for choosing a color palette and style, following which you will be able to make a pleasant impression, show your strengths, charm and conquer a potential companion.
Styles
- Moderately form-fitting. Keep the line between sexy and depraved, especially since it is very easy to cross it. A tight-fitting dress of medium length with a beautiful cutout on the chest or an alluring slit on the skirt is stylish and attractive, but a very short clingy dress of an irritating acid color will look vulgar and provocative. Its owner risks establishing herself as a person with a lack of taste. It cannot be said that all men understand fashion, but they clearly understand the difference between a “vulgar hillbilly” and an “elegant girl.” And its presence in the selection of a wardrobe is welcomed by the stronger sex and a certain feminine mystique is also at a premium.
- Fitted. It would be correct to mark the waist with a strap or a wide belt, perhaps in a contrasting shade. By nature, in the subconscious of a man, there is an understanding of the correct female proportions (hourglass figure), which they highlight in us, first of all. Lush breasts and hips, a thin waist, are valued at all times, so boldly emphasize your features by choosing styles that are tapered at the waist.
- Off the shoulder. Emphasize and slightly reveal your charms, rather than openly demonstrating them. Bare shoulders or open arms, provided they are beautiful and slim, attract the male gaze.Sharp shoulders and thin wrists are considered feminine and touching, so if you are the lucky owner of them, then a dress without sleeves or with thin straps, with a light scarf draped over your shoulders, will make you especially attractive and intriguing.
- Midi length skirt. Scientists have determined and proven that this length (from the knee and slightly below) is the most attractive for men.
Well-chosen colors and prints
Not only the style is important, but also the chosen color. According to the results of a sociological survey of men of different ages and material incomes, it turned out that they like girls dressed in clothes of this particular range the most. These are classic shades such as:
- Black. The little black dress is our “everything”. The ideal option, if your figure allows, is a tight-fitting black sheath dress to the knee, with a slit in the skirt and a V-shaped neckline on the chest.
- Red. Not only a dress can look impressive, but also a business trouser suit if it is red. Just keep in mind that if you are a modest person, then shocking red is not quite suitable for you, because not every girl is capable of feeling relaxed in such attire.
- White. Considered the color of innocence and modesty. If white suits you and it’s summer outside, feel free to choose this color and combine it with bright accessories.
What repels men's attention
Ridiculous styles of fashionable and favorite things in the unisex style, oversize, have a right to exist in everyday life, but you shouldn’t come on a date in stretched, out-of-shape clothes in dark shades. When creating an image, do not overdo it with mystery. It is unlikely that a man will notice you, drowning in a robe or in a skirt “sweeping” the street with the hem.But a tight black turtleneck will highlight your strengths and hide your flaws, even in combination with simple jeans.
Unattractive colors and prints on clothes
- Low-quality leatherette with a large number of rhinestones, spikes or sequins giving the image vulgarity and cheapness.
- The predominance of the outfit is leopard or snake print, abnormally high heels and large fishnet tights.
Adviсe
- High heel. It is the heel that stretches the silhouette and makes the gait smooth and beautiful, creating the impression that the girl is confident in herself. Psychologists say that serious, accomplished men want to see a lady next to them, and not a teenage girl in sneakers and torn jeans.
- Balance between modesty and frankness. An appropriate rule would be to open only one part of the body.
Important! There should be one, or maximum two, detail that attracts attention. To highlight all the advantages at once is vulgar.
For example, if a blouse or dress has a seductive neckline, then select the length of the skirt from midi (covered knees) to maxi. By opening the chest or exposing the shoulders, we disguise the hips and legs under the flowing fabric of the skirt.
Stick to the golden mean, relying on your individuality. Emphasize your sexuality, but remain modest. Moderation in accessories, but thoughtfulness in detail, flirty details will give the image an unforgettable charm and give you a heap of sincere masculine compliments.