Each of us probably has a pair of familiar twins - now this is not such a rare occurrence. Physiognomic similarity in most cases is emphasized by the same “shell”: clothes, shoes, accessories. Whether this is good or bad, let’s try to figure it out.
Should twins dress alike?
This is a dilemma for many parents. Some don’t agonize over the choice for a long time and buy two identical sets at once. Others quite rightly believe that every child is an individual, from an early age he must differ from his exact “copy”.
The first option is supported by the fact that from birth twins feel each other very subtly, without experiencing any difficulties in communication. They are happy, they share all the joys and sorrows between them. They have common interests and always have a companion to play with. Identical clothing is a certain attribute that emphasizes their commonality and equivalence for others.
Psychologists adhere to the second point of view.They argue that the absence of any differences in appearance makes it difficult for everyone to self-identify as a separate, full-fledged individual.
Why do twins dress the same as children?
According to statistics, there is one twin for every 50 newborns. Such kids are the pride of the family, and parents often try to enhance the similarity. In preschool and early school age there is nothing wrong with this.
First of all, it's beautiful. Completely different things on kids who are constantly together do not look very good, but it’s another matter if you choose different colors for similar styles.
Secondly, a dispute may arise between children (even not twins) over the clothes they like. Anyone who does not like his attire automatically comes to the conclusion that he was offended, that his parents love his brother or sister more. Wearing the same clothes eliminates this problem. Many twins themselves want to be no different from each other.
Thirdly, buying two sets at once in a store makes it easier to get a discount, and for many families this is a big plus. After all, two children born at the same time mean double expenses, and there is no one to “wear” things.
It is for these reasons that parents of twins most often limit themselves to the minimum details that allow them to be distinguished. For example, girls can wear different earrings, elastic bands or hairpins.
Important! To help children learn to make decisions, you can trust them to choose some clothes, for example, a hat, socks or gloves. If they “have their eye” on different things, so be it, they will wear what they themselves prefer.
Fashionable youth of twins
Despite their external similarity, the twins are very different in character. One, as a rule, is the leader, the other is the follower. During adolescence, this difference becomes obvious. Everyone has their own interests: some are into sports, others into music. In clothing, they can also give preference to different styles, so the “competition” for things stops.
When “personal life” appears, everyone strives to look especially fashionable and stylish in the eyes of the object of their adoration. Some even begin to get “stressed” by the comparison and deliberately choose opposite images. Identical things often serve as a tool for practical jokes, “gags” and deliberate creation of confusion (if, of course, the external similarity remains).
Clothes for adult twins
The older they get, the more significant the differences become.. If they are happily married and have strong families, then each individual’s individuality becomes stronger, and they consciously dress differently - depending on their profession, lifestyle, and social circle. In addition, some people watch their figure, while others may gain weight, some carefully take care of themselves, and others have already given up on themselves.
That's why Over the years, the appearance of twins can change, and they become not so identical. Although there are examples when facial features, build, as well as the habit of resembling each other in everything, including clothing, remain until the end of life.
Of course, you don't have to dress the same. This ultimately depends on the twins themselves. However, the wisdom of parents in this matter also plays an important role. Their task is to teach their offspring from childhood to be themselves, to have their own opinions, and to be able to make choices based on their own feelings and preferences.
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