I was struck by a phrase I heard accidentally in public transport. Two ladies were talking to each other, and they were doing it so loudly that we, those around us, could not help but hear everything. One of them said quite sharply to her son’s wife: “It just infuriates me how she dresses!” I was already leaving, and what I heard stuck in my head, making me think: why are we so disloyal to the clothes of others? After all, sometimes I had a thought, looking at a friend or stranger: I can’t stand it when they dress like that! I asked my friends, they are also familiar with this.
What do you most often dislike about other people's clothes?
This is what most often causes internal disagreement in the image of another person.
Mini shorts on full
Short (for some - excessively!) shorts do not decorate obese women. It looks, to put it mildly, “not very good.” An additional “minus” is bulging pockets. High socks or leggings worn with shorts do not improve the situation.
Important! Longer shorts hide unattractive volumes and allow women of both body and age to look stylish.
Straps in plain sight
Straps that show in large necklines on a T-shirt or dress have long been frowned upon.
I won’t grumble that in “our time” it was impossible to imagine such a thing.
But I have to admit that it annoys me too! Especially when the straps look clearly stale. Moreover, so much has already been written about how to hide them - but no, we are forced to observe them again and again!
Panties that are visible
Low-rise jeans often play a cruel joke on a girl. As soon as she sits down or bends over, her thong comes into view.
They can be quite cute. But nevertheless, they also do not evoke sympathy from others. And it’s not only grannies or stern older ladies who don’t like their appearance. Men also often name them among women’s “cons.”
Socks and slippers
The stronger sex also makes mistakes! This may seem right and convenient to men, but from the outside it looks terrible!
What if you don’t waste time on trifles?
Probably, in private communication and on numerous forums you can find more than one example of what causes irritation in the clothes of others. But even in the above examples, there are common points that different people do not like.
Excessive frankness
The property of others can be different: bra straps, men's or women's panties, excessively exposed parts of the body, etc. In any case, most often people are not delighted to see what is usually hidden.
Dirty, unwashed, unkempt
Irritation increases when you have to see stale underwear, an unwashed body, unkempt hair, etc.
Inconsistencies
From the outside, as they say, you know better... This is probably why other people’s mistakes are more noticeable to us than our own. Unfortunately, not everyone succeeds in composing their bow so that it does not irritate others. And instead of the desired harmony, we increasingly see annoying inconsistencies.
- Clothes that don't suit your age becomes a problem for women who notice that they hear the word “girl” addressed to them less and less. Wanting to look younger, they wear things that, on the contrary, openly speak about their age.
- Clothes that don't fit - another mistake! After all, in this case figure flaws not only become noticeable, they really stick out, “climb” into your eyes.
IMPORTANT! The most fashionable things can look unattractive if ladies do not take into account the features of their figure.
- Color inconsistencies also often cause condemnation. Although we are all accustomed to repeating that “there are no comrades according to taste,” it’s a good idea to learn to evaluate the entire look as a whole, imagining how individual wardrobe details will be combined. Rarely does anyone like tackiness!
- Excessive thoroughness, demonstrative thoughtfulness in the selection of accessories. Yes Yes! This is also not assessed positively by everyone!
What don’t you like about the clothes of others?
Personally, I don’t like people who don’t recognize the word “tolerance.” (I won’t say “tolerance” because that word has been ruined).A person dresses as he sees fit, as he likes. And period. If someone likes short shorts - for God's sake! Some will say that thick legs look like hams; the other is as skinny as the tongue in a bell. You can't please everyone. etc.
grandma is awesome! complete delight. much better than boring gray mice dressed in classic beige. If they tell me that I don’t dress like that, I answer, don’t look if you don’t like me. I don’t violate social and moral norms, but the fact that you don’t like my style of clothing is only your problem, it doesn’t interest me
I also really like Grandma)