Worn things, cheap perfume, dishes with monstrous patterns - this is what daughters-in-law sometimes have to deal with after their mothers-in-law show their generosity. While some gifts from parents are simply unusable, others can cause serious harm. (intentional or unintentional). Learn to identify them before acceptance, otherwise your married life will be full of torment, quarrels and troubles. Health problems, financial difficulties and other troubles are also possible.
What gifts from your mother-in-law promise problems?
In fact, it is easier to name gifts that can be accepted from any person, including those with a negative attitude, than to identify all those things that should not be accepted from your husband’s mother. They do not carry a negative charge and are neutral: tablecloths, carpets, pillows, pens. Take these things with a calm heart and be sure to thank your mother-in-law for the offering.The best way to block negative energy is to let a gift into your world and home with a smile, goodwill and joy.
Important! Accept an expensive wedding gift from your mother-in-law with peace of mind and gratitude. This is a safe gift. If your heart is still worried and anxious, then read a prayer over the offering before using it for the first time.
Scarf
“Change” from communicating with your mother-in-law if you accept. Relationship problems are complemented by the context of the gift. It is believed that a scarf is given when people want to designate and strengthen their dominance.
Important! Under no circumstances accept used items from a person who has bad habits: excessive pathological love for alcohol, the opposite sex or drugs. If you put on this item of clothing, you will “outdo” the donor in his sin.
A knitted scarf and, in general, all things made from yarn deserve special attention. If such an item is presented before the wedding, betrayal cannot be avoided.
Animal
Not the best option for several reasons:
Firstly, an animal not chosen by the owner himself becomes attached to him much more slowly. The initial connection that helps the pet see authority in a particular person is missing.- Secondly, there is a high probability of aggressive behavior on the part of the living gift. Sooner or later, you will have to part with him.
- Thirdly, you may unconsciously transfer your attitude towards your mother-in-law onto the poor creature. In this case, not it, but you will begin to show unmotivated hostility. And this can already have serious consequences. Up to a criminal article.
You also need to consider what kind of pet was presented. Fish - to minor troubles. Cat - to problems. A dog means swearing.
Scales
Psychologists strongly discourage giving women objects even indirectly related to weight.. You cannot present gym memberships, weight loss medications, or scales. This, on an intuitive basic level, is perceived as an insult. Like, you’re fat, it’s urgently time for you to get yourself in order. There is also a belief that such a gift from the mother-in-law can affect the appearance of the receiving party.
Decorations
Perhaps the most terrible gift is the cross. The donor literally transfers his heavy cross to another person. Such a gift can be accepted only in one case: immediately before baptism and provided that the mother-in-law has been chosen as a godmother.
Also You should not take silver items from the donor. Metal given as a gift will block your intuition, premonition and magical abilities (provided they were present in the first place). No matter how many conspiracies you read to cleanse yourself of the influence of such an object, you will not succeed. You will have to seek help from an experienced psychic, and there is no guarantee of a successful outcome.
Another extremely dangerous gift is bells and decorations that are somehow related to them. Such a gift means death. But pearls and objects made from them, although they are not considered a good gift, they cannot cause serious harm. True, the daughter-in-law will cry from such a generous gesture from her mother-in-law. Perhaps a lot.
Slippers
There are many beliefs centered around shoes, but the worst situation is with slippers. The person who accepts such a gift will soon leave the donor’s family. Moreover, “leaving” in this context does not always equal “leaving” or “exiting” the family. Death is also leaving.
Important! The worst situation is if the donated shoes are white.
Icon
The offering of religious paraphernalia is unacceptable, she will drain your strength. Also, ridiculed Christian symbols turn into satanic devices - this is widely used by witches to inflict damage (including “death”). If refusing the gift is impossible, then when accepting it, do not say “thank you” to your husband’s mother. Kiss the image of the saint, nod your head to the woman, but don’t say or do anything else.
Important! There is a tradition of offering icons to the newlyweds' parents. You can accept such a gift as part of a wedding or wedding. As a last resort, if you are sure of the bad intentions and moods of the donor, consecrate the face of the saint in the church.
If you accept an unwanted religious gift, do not burn, re-gift, or throw away it. If there are any doubts about the purity of the donor’s thoughts, then simply take the gift to the church and ask the clergyman to take the icon for the needs of the parish.
Salt shaker
Do not accept such a gift. This is the way to bring into your home:
financial difficulties;- health problems (not only for you, but for all your household members);
- donor's difficulties.
Salt absorbs other people's energy well and quickly. She will bring you what is in the donor’s soul and what he is experiencing at this particular moment.
Ring
The most controversial case is the adoption of a family heirloom in the form of a wedding ring or ring.
On the one hand, the item has been imbued with family energy over decades, or even centuries, of use.- On the other hand, someone else’s family is in the dark. You will never know how your spouse's ancestors really lived.Perhaps behind the screen of an unbreakable married couple were hidden constant infidelities, domestic violence, and mutual neglect of the functions of parent and spouse.
- Thirdly, it is quite difficult not to accept such a thing. A loved one saw a ring on the hand of his mother or grandmother. He will definitely want to see it on the finger of a woman whom he values, loves and respects as much as he loved the previous owner of the ring.
Therefore, there is nothing left but to accept the thing, but then take it to church and consecrate it. Until then, it is better not to put it on your finger. Well, or at least read the health spell before using it for the first time.
Watch
Existing signs:
to receive them means a quick separation, parting;- a normal relationship with the donor will last as long as the clock runs;
- the recipient will live exactly as long as the clock runs.
Lighters and other flame sources
Anything connected with fire can put an end to family well-being. The marital hearth, fueled by negative energy, will flare up, the fire will get out of control and spread to the home environment. After endless destructive quarrels, nothing will remain of the former prosperity, only ashes.
Knives
If you don’t want to live with your spouse and his parents at knifepoint, then never accept sharp objects from your mother-in-law. Even a ransom will not help normalize the situation. The only way to stop swearing is like this:
you need to give the donor money and clarify what kind of knife it is;- read the protective plot;
- throw the unsuccessful present into the river.
Pink and blue baby clothes
They represent risk for a pregnant woman. Accepting them can cause a miscarriage.
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It’s complete nonsense, and yet they write such things, they should at least do something useful, knit some socks for their grandchildren. Judging by the presentation of the text, it was written by an elderly and far from intelligent person. Knit and only knit, you have nothing else to do in writing texts, a homeless woman in a garbage dump is sometimes more eloquent than this text, she almost fell asleep, she barely finished reading it.
The author of the article was simply unlucky with his mother-in-law!
Agree. They collected everything in a heap. And they made a monster out of the mother-in-law.
I wonder if Alexandra comes up with her own texts or receives them from dark forces and is this spiritual damage? There is little that can surprise me, but then my eyes widened.
Well, what can I say... the author succeeded. The article just evokes a storm of emotions! On the one hand, it’s incredibly funny - the text is certainly worthy of publication, but in the humorous section, of course.
On the other hand, the monstrous ignorance is shocking, and this is always upsetting.
But the main thing is still serious concerns about the author’s health, because, judging by the content, the one who wrote this has obvious cognitive and mental disorders.
Here above, Stella suggested that the author knit children's clothes... Well, I don’t know, I would remove all sharp and piercing objects away.
It’s a pity that there are no statistics on how many families will experience discord after this article. Author, what kind of karma do you impose on yourself and how are you going to work it off? These seemingly stupid things will definitely come back to haunt you.
Do you think that if a daughter-in-law has a good relationship with her mother-in-law and her mother-in-law is like a mother to her, then the daughter-in-law, after reading some article on the Internet, will quarrel with her beloved and respected person? What are we even talking about? If the family is not healthy, then no articles will help or harm it, everything is bad there. And if it’s good, they won’t read it. On astrology sites it is written that Virgos and Aries cannot live, so why not write? Will everyone run for divorce at once?
This is an informational article, not even a reference article. Just read and laugh if everything is fine in your head. And in other circumstances, it’s not the article’s fault, and certainly not the author’s...
Unpleasant article. And the information here is destructive, and there is nothing to laugh at. It is worth writing about what unites people and inspires goodwill. Especially mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If you don’t respect your mother-in-law (you suspect her of ill will and witchcraft)), a happy woman’s fate will not work out.
What a nightmare - my mother-in-law is just a monster!!!! Guys, get your head together first! About gold, yes, I agree - it takes energy from the owner.,,but there are a number of other aspects when people pass on their jewelry from generation to generation, so what? do they want to curse or what? Yes nonsense!!! Take Duchess Kate, who wears the ring of Princess Diana's late mother-in-law - so what? Is she the most unhappy woman in the world? Don’t believe such articles and don’t clutter your brain needlessly!
Complete nonsense!!!! When accepting any household item, one must also suspect relatives of undesirable consequences!? It’s kind of creepy... It’s impossible to exist!!!
Duristic!!!! Is the author okay in the head?
Stupidity
What nonsense. People with unstable psyches start reading too much, and there will be trouble.
Where did you pick up such nonsense? I can’t imagine giving my daughter-in-law a salt shaker, let alone icons – that’s completely beyond the pale! The article is a mixture of prejudices and all sorts of occult nonsense!
dear Alexandra, why do you hate your mother-in-law so much, the whole article is permeated with this feeling, if you have children, you too can find yourself in the role of a mother-in-law, as then? We will write another article - “The beneficial role of the mother-in-law, etc. ....” Without having been in the shoes of, in this case, the mother-in-law, you don’t need to lump everyone together. I wish you to think carefully first before increasing discontent between your daughter-in-law and mother-in-law, this topic is already full of fire in our time, the slogan is “Mother-in-law is evil”
Stupid mothers-in-law immediately jumped out in the comments! ? In fact, I have heard many superstitions since childhood. And it doesn’t matter who the donor is.
They just decided to start a war and made the mother-in-law the donor. Because a few mothers-in-law are angels with their daughters-in-law. Nowadays, many modern 50-year-old mothers-in-law are smart: they don’t interfere and don’t spread rot on their daughters-in-law.
But I didn’t like the article because of the creepy ROC of the brain: as soon as it’s suggested to run to church or read prayers. Hey, in the 21st century, young girls should deal with this obscurantism? This is already stupid!
Sorry, but she is a second mother!!! How can I tell my mother “this gift doesn’t suit me”???
My ex-mother-in-law gave me a knitted scarf and it really changed me
Knives, slippers, bed linen. The mother-in-law considered the boys the best. But before reading it, after a thousand arguments with my husband, I felt something was wrong with these things. When I burned the slippers I almost vomited. There was a lump in my throat and it didn’t want to burn. Swearing after I cut her with knives. Just nothing after heartfelt conversations. Pickles are a separate issue... not all mothers-in-law are like this, but I believed this one until the very end. She arranged such lisps...
Mother-in-law is evil. She is already approaching 90, she cannot calm down, her son is 65 years old. Mentally unhealthy grandmother, tired of her dirty tricks. It poisoned our whole life. I HATE