Many couples, having been married for 19 years, do not know what kind of wedding this is and how it is recommended to celebrate it. The date has its own traditions, symbols and history. What kind of wedding is 19 years old and what do they give? More on this later.
Wedding anniversary of 19 years: what is it called, features and traditions
It's called a pomegranate wedding. The date symbols are hyacinth and pomegranate. The first is a beautiful flower or valuable mineral that represents tranquility.
Initially the symbol was garnet stone, not fruit. Subsequently, the perception changed, and the pomegranate fruit took the lead in this matter. It is believed that after 19 years, the couple’s relationship is so strong that they are compared to hard pomegranate seeds. By this point, most families experience a period of prosperity and stability.
Reference. There is a belief that if spouses exchange jewelry with a pomegranate, this will protect their union from negativity and evil spirits. Therefore, from ancient times it was customary to exchange rings decorated with pomegranates on the wedding day.
A burgundy colored stone is used as a symbol to celebrate this wedding anniversary. There are also some traditions associated with this date. Among them:
- The celebration takes place in a modest family circle. It is recommended to invite only close friends and family.
- Hyacinth is placed on the table for decoration - a symbol of the 19th wedding anniversary, which will add a pleasant aroma to the room.
- There is a tradition when guests shower the entering spouses with hyacinth petals. You shouldn't clean them up later. They should lie on the hair and clothes of the spouses all evening.
Husband and wife are encouraged to give each other gifts. They do not have to be expensive, but symbolic and pleasant.
If you plan to use invitations for guests, let them be painted in a burgundy shade. Decorations at the celebration should also be in a similar color scheme: balls, ribbons in a burgundy shade. You can make a fake pomegranate from ceramics or plaster.
The menu should contain dishes that contain pomegranate as an ingredient or simply as a decoration. Spouses should choose outfits that include burgundy shade. You should definitely present your wife with a bouquet. For him, it is preferable to choose tulips, roses and peonies.
What to give for a pomegranate wedding
There are quite a lot of gift options for this anniversary. It is customary to give gifts that symbolize the number of years the spouses have lived in marriage. You can present the number 19 from balloons or jewelry with appropriate engraving.
Do not forget about the interests of the spouses themselves. The gift should make them happy, and not just represent a pomegranate wedding.
To my husband
When choosing a gift for your spouse, you should take into account his interests and the symbolism of the pomegranate wedding.Therefore, among the gifts you can consider men's wallet burgundy shade. Various attributes with garnet are also suitable: ring, keychain. A tie and a clip for it, a robe for the house or a shirt will be useful. A genuine leather gadget case is suitable. The main thing is to follow the specified color scheme.
Wife
When choosing a gift, the wife should act from the same considerations: the lady should like it and symbolize a pomegranate wedding. You can present paired items such as rings, pendants or bracelets decorated with garnets. The wife will have one item, the second - the husband, which will become a symbol of their strong, happy marriage and love.
Suitable gifts include jewelry with garnet or burgundy elements. Not only rings or earrings are suitable, but also pendants, pendants, etc.
Cosmetics and a wallet or bag will also make a nice gift. If you plan to give perfume as a gift, then let the perfume have notes of hyacinth.
Friends or relatives
The presentation can be shared. For example, a photo album containing pictures from their wedding. This is a great gift idea for kids. They can make a whole family collage with photos. The result will be a touching and warm gift. The choice of colors remains the same. It is recommended to give preference to shades of red and burgundy. Bed linen and tableware sets are suitable. An excellent addition to the gift would be a bottle of red wine or pomegranates as part of a fruit basket.
If the gift has already been purchased and the color scheme does not correspond to the recommendations, the solution to the situation will be packaging in a suitable tone. A wedding anniversary of 19 years is not an anniversary, so it is not necessary to give expensive gifts. The main thing is that the selected items symbolize the unity of the spouses, their comfortable and happy family life.
A garnet wedding is also considered krypton, so it is permissible to choose lamps and chandeliers as a gift. Additionally - hyacinths in bouquets or pots as a symbol of the anniversary.
Household items (frying pans, drills, irons, etc.) should be discarded. The exception is when the spouses themselves asked for such a gift. You can prepare a cake and decorate with pomegranate seeds. Pomegranate juice is added to the filling.
It is appropriate to present a jewelry box or photo frame made with your own hands. There are quite a lot of options.
Whatever gift you choose, it is better if it is connected in some way with the symbols - hyacinth and pomegranate. The burgundy-red color scheme is one of the main conditions.
Don't forget that this is a holiday for spouses. It is necessary to focus on the tastes of the husband and wife, and not just on traditions and customs. It is permissible to give not only general or paired gifts, but also individual ones. Before the celebration, you can carefully ask the couple what they would like to receive.