The date of 38 years of marriage is a significant anniversary. This is not an anniversary, but the event should not be ignored. Let's find out what it's called and what to consider when choosing a gift.
Wedding anniversary 38 years: its name and features
This date is called the mercury date. It is known that the element is a liquid metal that emits toxic fumes. It is used in thermometers. It is believed that the couple became one after living together for 38 years. They were able to overcome problems, learned to maintain peace and love in the family despite various external influences. The couple became wiser and accumulated a large amount of knowledge. Two different people were able to achieve harmony, gain resistance to stress, and flexibility.
It is not recommended to give mercury as a gift, even in the form of a standard thermometer. It is better if the chosen gifts symbolize the unity of the couple.
An anniversary does not apply to jubilees. Therefore, you can refuse to hold a magnificent celebration. There may be several options for celebrating:
- Together.This is especially true for couples who don’t get to spend much time together on weekdays. The holiday will be a great reason to go to your favorite restaurant for dinner or take yourself a little vacation by going out of town for the weekend.
- In a close family circle. You can gather your family for tea at home and remember the pleasant, touching moments from the wedding and subsequent family life.
- With close friends and relatives. You can gather them in a restaurant or arrange a celebration at home, or organize a picnic. As a rule, many guests are not invited, limiting themselves to only a small circle of people.
The scenario for the holiday is chosen by the spouses themselves, taking into account their own preferences. If possible, it is allowed to combine several options.
What do spouses give each other for a mercury wedding?
Mercury has a silvery tint. Therefore, a good and symbolic gift would be a decoration made from silver or white gold: earrings, pendants, pendants, rings, etc. You can give a watch with silver elements. The gifts listed are suitable only for a woman who loves to wear jewelry, otherwise they will be useless.
Among the suitable options for a spouse, it is worth noting a jewelry box, a gift certificate for a spa or massage, household appliances, and interior goods. When choosing the last two options, it is recommended to first clarify whether the wife needs such gifts and what kind.
Do not forget that for any reason or without it, a woman is pleased to receive flowers. Therefore, the chosen gift is complemented with a beautiful bouquet.
When choosing a gift for your spouse, it is also worth remembering the symbolism of the anniversary. Can be silver watch, cufflinks, tie clip.Knowing your husband’s preferences, you can present him with a shirt, sweater, belt or perfume.
It is worth considering not only the symbolism, but also remembering the interests of the spouse. For someone who likes to make things with their own hands, a set of tools is suitable, for a business man - an engraved pen, for a fishing enthusiast - a new fishing rod. Anyone with a sweet tooth will surely appreciate the cake his wife prepared. You can decorate it with fruits and write “38” on top.
What to give to parents
The holiday does not necessarily have to be organized by the spouses. Their children can take care of the celebration and its implementation. The couple will be pleased with such attention. You can invite close relatives and friends for dinner.
In addition to a practical gift, it is worth giving something touching. You can bake or order cakes and pastries with a picture of the couple and wishes for them. A family album or family tree will be an excellent reason to learn more about your family and remind you of happy, touching moments in life. If the spouses have a summer cottage, the children can offer to plant a tree together. It will become a symbol of their family and will be so for many more generations.
Among the more practical gifts, you can choose one that is aimed at maintaining the health of the couple. For example, a trip to a sanatorium, a subscription to a wellness massage or other useful procedures.
Some people prefer to give new pets as gifts. The present is good, but you should clarify in advance whether the spouses are ready for it. Not everyone has the time and opportunity to take care of a new friend and give him the attention he needs. But if the parents themselves hinted that they would like to have a pet, then the anniversary will be an excellent occasion to make their wish come true.
Gift options from friends and relatives
When choosing a gift for the mercury anniversary, you should rely on the preferences and needs of the spouses. It is allowed to give each of the couple a separate souvenir, but it is better if the gift is shared. This could be a set of dishes, interior elements, bed linen or towels. Loungewear or similar warm sweaters are also good options. Don’t forget about a bouquet of a woman’s favorite flowers.
Among the ideas, you can consider objects of silver or white color, symbolizing mercury. Or you should choose gift packaging in such a palette. The youngest guests can draw something for the spouses or recite a poem to them.
The main gift for a couple on their 38th wedding anniversary will be the attention of relatives and friends. Therefore, it is recommended to move away a little from practicality and place more emphasis on touching and warmth. This will allow the spouses to once again relive the happy, joyful moments of their family relationships.
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