Every wedding anniversary is an important holiday for spouses. Such non-round dates are often celebrated in a narrow family circle. But no one forbids organizing a magnificent celebration. First, you should figure out what the ninth anniversary is called and what is best to give to the couple.
9 year anniversary: what kind of wedding is it, its features
Previously it was called chamomile. This is due to the fact that the flower is considered a symbol of fidelity and love. The custom of fortune telling by chamomile for a betrothed has long been known.
Subsequently, 9 years from the wedding day began to be called the faience anniversary. The material is quite fragile. This is exactly what the relationship between spouses can be like during this period. It is believed that one of the family crises occurs in the 9th year, so spouses need to treat marriage like a fragile dish - carefully and carefully. Any awkward movement will lead to its damage. You can just as easily ruin your relationship with your spouse.
It is believed that earthenware is capable of absorbing negative energy, so in the old days many housewives hung jugs made of this material on their fences.This measure made it possible to remove negativity from the house.
It is not recommended, even as a joke, to tell fortunes using a daisy on your wedding anniversary. The couple have already found each other, so the flower must remain untouched. An obligatory tradition is that the husband presents his wife with a bouquet of daisies on this day as a symbol of celebration and love.
If you plan to hold a celebration and invite guests, then their number is at least 9 people.
Another ritual is associated with breaking dishes. Before the start of the holiday, the spouses must break 9 plates. It's better to use old dishes that you don't mind. We need to fight together. The husband and wife take the plate from different sides and throw it on the floor. At the end, the couple kisses. And this is repeated 9 times. This procedure symbolizes the rebirth of marriage. Spouses get rid of negative energy and forget grievances.
You can't collect the pieces until the holiday is over. They are first moved to the side for convenience, and then, when the guests leave, they are placed in a separate bag and stored for a whole year.
It was customary to give wreaths of daisies to the wife. Such a gift was presented by guests, not by the husband. In the modern world, little attention is paid to such traditions. But if you want to celebrate a holiday with the symbolism of the 9th anniversary, then you can implement the described customs.
What to give for a faience wedding
From the name of the date it is easy to guess that the main gifts are items made of earthenware and related to chamomile. But you shouldn’t limit yourself to them only. You can combine gifts, combining symbolic items with useful, practical ones.
To my husband
As a thematic detail, you can present your spouse with a faience award or some other element, with the inscription “To the best husband” and the anniversary date or something similar. It is worth ordering a medal with an individual inscription.
For those with a sweet tooth, various sets of sweets, originally designed, are suitable.
When choosing a gift, you should focus more on the interests of the man. For business people, ties, cufflinks, leather-bound diaries, and pens with individual inscriptions are suitable. The athlete will appreciate sports equipment, including a new uniform, sneakers, bag, etc.
A earthenware gift can simply be an addition to the main gift. Standard options - watch, perfume, shirt. Discs, gamepads, and consoles are suitable for gamers.
If your husband loves board games, then you should look for gifts in this area. A book lover will appreciate his favorite work in a gift edition or a book about his favorite author.
Wife
The first thing a man should present to his wife is a bouquet. And the chamomile anniversary tells you which one to give. But if the holiday date falls at a time when daisies are difficult to get, then you should just give your wife’s favorite flowers. Among the gift options are:
- Dishes. The faience anniversary suggests just such a gift for a woman. These are not necessarily sets and services. You can present a mug or plate with a personalized inscription. Engraved glasses and personalized spoons are also suitable.
- Decorations. One of the win-win options. Most women love jewelry, so they will be happy with such a gift. Especially if the spouse has long hinted that she wants a specific ring or earrings.
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